by Olivia Calò
It’s time to take down the taboo, but also to stop being afraid: if your pregnancy has not been declared at risk by the doctor who follows you (READ), then sex is not only not forbidden, not only can it be done, but it seems that it is absolutely worth trying. The sensations that can be released in fact during the acrobatics in the bedroom in the most particular nine months of a woman’s life, could be amazing.
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However, some factors must be considered: meanwhile, the stages of pregnancy are different for the woman and therefore also for the couple (READ); secondly, attention must be paid to some risk factors; finally it is absolutely necessary to specify that if the pregnancy has been declared at risk, the sex perhaps it is better to avoid it.
But in all other cases, the invitation is very clear: future mothers must not think they are doing something wrong, future fathers must not be afraid of harming their unborn children; because nature has thought very well about these issues, protecting the little ones with indestructible casings: the male member will never interfere with the blissful stay of the baby in the uterus.
At the most the little one will be able to feel strange movements, but it can only help him to perceive in some way the harmony and love flowing between the parents. And please don’t think that having sex during pregnancy could be a bad example for the unborn child, as if you were seeing a lot of pornographic film: let’s start the taboos and prohibitions on sex at least once he’s born, not before.
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Analyzing the stages of pregnancy it can be said that i first three months (READ) could be a problem in terms of sexual desire: the woman can in fact be subject to the all too well known nausea and have no desire to do anything in the bedroom; but beware because some women may be inexplicably attracted more than usual to their partners.
The second phase, corresponding to the second trimester of pregnancy (READ), on the other hand, it is characterized for all by a significant increase in hormones and sexual desire, which is why it is one of the favorable moments to take advantage of it.
In the last quarter the only problem is the footprint (READ): the size of the belly could actually be a nuisance, so it is obvious that the couple will not be able to include all the positions of the kamasutra.
Therefore recommended: him sitting and she on top; she on one side and he behind, always on one side; she supine on the edge of the bed and he stands in front.
In the period immediately preceding the birth, the opinions are conflicting: on the one hand some doctors argue that intercourse can help the dilation of the cervix and prepare the pelvic muscles for the event, on the other hand some experts argue instead that complete intercourse in the last period they are to be avoided as the sperm could induce a premature birth (READ), due to some chemicals it contains.
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On the other hand, there is no contraindication for orgasm: the contractions that the woman perceives when she reaches the peak of pleasure are not at all harmful for the baby, even if he is about to be born.
Only on one point it is necessary to be absolutely careful: infectious diseases are to be avoided, at all costs, because any infectious disease, sexually transmitted, (READ) could create problems for the baby and the new mother.
In any case, whether intercourse is possible or not recommended, even foreplay, caresses, kisses, mutual masturbation, affection in a broad sense, are strongly advocated to strengthen the couple’s harmony during one of its most magical and mysterious moments. In a word: do not give up on love, least of all now that you are expecting a child